Friday Fight 215: Salted Speech - Reclaiming Godly Communication:
Every Friday, when I wake and pray, God places something on my heart to help fight darkness beginning in our minds. Today is FF215.
What comes to mind when we hear the word communication? Many may think of the last time they sent a text message, while others imagine talking, posting, or sharing ideas. How often do we truly engage in meaningful conversation—fully present, listening as much as we speak?
We live in a world where people can livestream to millions of people yet struggle to hold a five-minute conversation without looking at their phones. Despite endless ways to connect, face-to-face communication is suffering. If we struggle to connect with others, how might that disconnection carry into our relationship with God?
Salted Speech - Reclaiming Godly Communication:
Recently, I asked my fourth-grade students to reflect on real-life communication habits—not through devices but in everyday interactions. We discussed tone, clarity, interrupting, reacting instead of responding, using words to compromise or control, and subtle body language, such as eye-rolling or saying "never mind" to shut down a conversation.
These habits matter. They quietly reveal the kind of speakers—and listeners—we’re becoming. My students were learning the value of self-reflection—something essential for growth. For example, if we've used silence as a weapon instead of space for grace, we must relearn how to communicate. These habits shape how we relate to people—and eventually to God, with an eternal impact.
Being rooted in the Word means we can always turn to Scripture for help. Colossians 4:6 says, "Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone." Salt adds flavor and preserves. Paul's metaphor reminds us that our words should add value, not just fill space. Our words aren't just noise—they reflect our inner world. If our conversations are full of impatience, control, or distraction, how can we expect our conversations with God to be any different? But when we speak with grace, listen with empathy, and communicate with humility, we build habits that draw us closer to others and, ultimately, to Him.
If we don't pay attention, our ability to communicate well can slip away quietly. Before we realize it, it may damage relationships, hinder work, and weaken our connection with God. Communication isn't just a skill; it's one of the most powerful spiritual practices we've been given. Through it, we reflect His grace, build trust, and draw near to His presence.
Applying this truth is simple yet powerful. Start small and grow deep by:
• Practicing active listening
• Putting down your phone - being more present
• Speaking with intention rather than reaction
• Embracing uncomfortable conversations—they often lead to growth
Then, let’s carry these habits into our conversations with God by asking ourselves:
• If I cut people off, do I rush through prayer too?
• If I speak to control, do I talk at God instead of with Him?
• If I say "never mind" to others, do I give up when God feels silent?
People interrupt more and listen less. The overuse of texting and social media has made in-person or even phone conversations awkward and anxiety-inducing. Slowly, our communication with God begins to reflect the same detachment. The world has made it easier to speak to crowds but harder to communicate one-on- one. Let's reclaim communication that builds trust, heals hearts, and draws us closer to one another and God.
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In His Grace,
Pastor Shannon
River Church